The Problem of Creepy Men

In this episode we go deep into the problem of creepy men. These are men who simply don't get it when it comes to talking to women. Often we approach such men with anger and disgust, and yet this seldom actually solves the problem. What are the consequences to not solving this problem? How can we approach it with compassion? Listen to find out. We hope you enjoy!

 

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Show Notes

0:33 - Who exactly is this creepy man and taking his perspective

10:28 - The Natural and the Incel

23:25 - How can we bridge this gap and why exactly should we?

33:38 - A lacking solution landscape and the automatic distrust of men

39:55 - The commitment double standard women have for men

50:00 - The education system and the fear that men have

54:06 - Pickup artistry and men trying to take sex from women

1:05:14 - Will's experience with pickup and growing through it

1:10:48 - The trifecta of shaming men and the desire for intimacy

1:17:19 - Kaylee recontextualizes an experience with a creepy man

1:24:37 - Women as the passive recipients of male attention

1:33:32 - Are women obligated to be creeped out by men?

1:39:58 - We can't simply expect men to magically know what to do

1:45:52 - Can men get better if we shame the idea of getting better?

1:55:53 - Healing sexual shame doesn't mean diving headfirst into it

 

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